Our friends, N and M, are expecting a daughter in April. To celebrate the the parents-to-be and the upcoming arrival of their bundle of joy, Keith and I hosted a co-ed baby shower for them this weekend, a sunny afternoon in March. We wanted a laid back afternoon, suitable for the co-ed affair and therefore held back on the traditional baby shower games and general "girliness", instead opting to minimize the organized events to a simple toast before the gift opening. It was wonderful that both the father- and mother- to-be could be there and that not only could one of the grandmothers-to-be participate, but so too could the uncle-to-be. Furthermore, this was by no means one of those alcohol-free showers: wine and beer were in abundance and we had special bellinis provided by M and N. People could eat, drink, and be merry.
I had a lot of fun with the decorations. In fact, my plan for a simple decor ended up spiraling out of control into craft craziness. After bouncing round a few ideas for themes, I ended up using a motif that N had drawn for their wedding website and amending it with the new addition (O:
(Note, all artist credit for these little guys goes to N, who I blatantly plagiarized for the theme).
My bird plan called for a branch, which evolved into a tree, which involved into a forest that took over our living room. Moreover, my first plan to have the branches bare, looked rather eerie which led me to add a few dots of crushed up green (two shades) and pink tissue paper, to easily transform them into budding trees. In retrospect, this was a cute way of subtly hinting at spring and new beginnings/new life, which is conveniently very suitable for a baby shower (albeit stumbled upon quite by accident).
(not shown: the branches coming off the other three walls of the room!)
The three birds gave a natural -- and quite lovely -- color scheme: orange, grey, and yellow. So, with my plan already a little bit bonkers, and me back in full crafting mode -- feeling like the good old days of wedding planning -- I expanded on the color theme by making poms in the respective colors -- lots of them. I used this wonderful
tutorial by Jacin of Lovely Little Details. So simple; yet so effective! Love it.
As was becoming a habit with my "ideas", the poms also spiraled out of control, starting out as a means to decorate the branches but expanding to ultimately cris-crossing the living room, decorated with ribbons in the same colors.
I brought a few personal touches to the food too: using the bird motif to decorate the cupcakes, and making bacon-gouda biscuits to reflect M's Dutch heritage (Gouda) and N's love of bacon. These turned out quite tasty and appropriately (but in retrospect, probably quite unsurprisingly) tasted a lot like "spek en kaas pannenkoeken" (bacon and cheese pancakes) one of my favorite Dutch foods.
Unfortunately, M's family are overseas/on the East coast and were unable to attend in person; however, they were there in spirit on account of a diaper cake from them. They provided the concept, the ribbons, and the decorations, and I put it together. A photo of them next to the cake made them feel closer than ever. One of M's sisters even sent a video message that we played for them...a lovely surprise (O:
As mentioned above, the only organized events were a toast, which Keith did a great job of, and the typical gift opening session: we had to get our quota of "ooohs" and "so cute" into this shower somehow! As described in my
previous post, I painted this as our gift to them (it incorporates Dutch, Russian and British cartoon characters from M and N's childhoods).
With the shower behind us and a lazy day to recover, I can look back and say that I'm really pleased with how everything panned out. I think N and M appreciated the personal touches and I'm so glad that Mom, Dad, Grandma, Uncle, and distant relatives could be involved. So all there is to say now is: N and M, I wish you the best for the adventures and joy to come. You are going to be amazing parents.